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By Jeff Block

The scariest part of the recent Amendment One debacle is that most of the supporters of this legalized discrimination seem so normal when you pass them in the street or the aisles of the grocery store. They don’t present as the bullies they are.

Bullies? Well, obviously! Finding a weaker person or group and then terrorizing them is the heart and soul of bullydom, and the homosexual community is an easy target.

We all agree that only one in ten people are born homosexual, so the odds are definitely on the side of the bullies. Watch out for more of this type of legalized oppression, as we have seen in other states. The fight to protect our minorities will continue for years now. We have missed a golden opportunity to stand for the American dream of equality under law.

The GOP/Tea Partiers who have forced this national shame upon us have not done a single thing to help with job creation, lower taxes for the middle-class and the poor, or in furthering educational opportunities for our citizenry. They are interested in “privatization,” which is nothing more than the theft of public property for the private use of wealthy fundraisers. Just look at the GOP initiatives to stifle the growth of public schools and advance privately owned schools operated by their cronies, to privatize water and power grid systems, and to use forced labor from private prisons to do our dirty work. Will this lead to private police and security forces compelling the rest of us to kowtow to the wealthy elite?

One bright sign from all this was the voice of those few compassionate ministers who urged their congregations to vote against this disaster. It was good for me to hear that there are many Christians who rightfully place these words of Jesus in their hearts — “Love thy neighbor as thyself.”

I was also able to take some personal solace in the fact that my home of Watauga County was a shining beacon of sanity in an otherwise dismal showing across most of the state. Much credit is due each of the individuals, some at risk for their jobs or their reputations, who had the compassion and the guts to overcome their fears and stand up against discrimination in letters to the editor, in picture ads in the newspaper, and in standing out at the polls distributing information. They were joined by many others who were not so vocal but who quietly voted against the amendment to our state’s constitution that now mandates that a disparate group is officially unequal under the law.

This recognition of common humanity is a major step toward true justice in this world and in the next. Partial credit is also awarded to a wonderful group of dedicated organizers and activists who did their absolute best to get out the vote in what was otherwise a rather meaningless primary election for Democrats who already stand firmly behind the President of the United States.

My apologies to my neighbors, but your so-called moralism is leading to nothing but the reestablishment of a feudalism that rightfully was overthrown several centuries ago. Some people felt driven by their preachers to vote for discrimination, but now I call upon all citizens to vote morally against bigotry and discrimination. Vote against corporate greed. Vote against war and the continued coddling of our defense contractors. Vote for people. Vote for universal health care and educational opportunities. Vote for jobs for our own at fair wages that allow folks to pay their rent and buy their groceries. How can we not be shamed that there are households in our state where two wage earners cannot avoid going deeper into debt every month?

Actions show a person’s true faith and beliefs, and the actions of this year’s election season will either mark us a country committed to the American ideals of liberty and justice for all or will place us in the eyes of the world as on a par with the fundamentalist mullahs of Islam. God help us, and God bless us all!

Jeff Block is a resident of Valle Crucis, NC, and is the author of “Nine Years After,” the true story of his wife Debbie’s continuing battle with brain cancer.

Link to print copy of “Nine Years After”: https://www.createspace.com/3644606

Link to e-book copy of “Nine Years After”: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B005CB8E3W

You are invited to a “Take Back the Tea” party and rally for Watauga County’s Democratic Party candidates who will be on the November ballot: NC House candidate Cullie Tarleton; NC Senate candidate Roy Carter; County Commission candidates John Welch, Virginia Roseman, and Billy Kennedy; and School Board candidates Brenda Reese, Barbara Kinsey, and Jay Fenwick.

“Take Back the Tea” will kick off at 4:30 p.m. on Sunday afternoon, May 20, in the banquet hall of the High Country Homebuilders Assn., 755 NC Hwy 105 Bypass. Tickets are only $10 each, available at the door or in advance from any of the candidates.

For contact information on the candidates, visit “Watauga Wins 2012”on-line: http://wataugawins.com. Or write jww@boone.net.

“Take Back the Tea” will be emceed by Bill Devereux and will feature entertainment by The Sisters of Perpetual Sarcasm as well as a “best tea party hat” contest for both men and women.

Both sweet and savory treats will be served with either hot tea, cold lemonade, or coffee.

Climate Impacts Day … Connect the Dots, which is allied with 350.org, will be observed in Boone on Saturday, May 5th, starting at noon with a free cookout at Boone Park on Horn in the West Drive.

Connect the Dots’ only purpose is to educate the public about the slow-motion catastrophe of climate change.

The event will feature a mural on which people may express their thoughts about climate change. Contact tables will focus on topics like renewable energy, citizen activism, the science of climate change, etc.

At 1:30 on Saturday there will be a community forum, a discussion with six specialists about climate change, and the group will welcome questions from the public. At 3 pm,  a group photo will be taken and uploaded to 350.org and beamed around the world with thousands of others.

More information and details may be seen at the local website for the event.

By Marjory Holder

On May 8th, North Carolinians will be asked to vote on an amendment to our state constitution. If you read the amendment on the ballot, it looks like a vote “yes” is a simple vote against gay marriage.

It is nothing of the kind and, as a person of faith, I am deeply disturbed.

Let me be very clear.  A vote against this amendment is not a vote to approve marriage between same-sex couples in our state — that is already against the law, and this vote will have no affect on that law.

What this amendment will do is harm North Carolina children and families, and there is no excuse for that. What this amendment will do is enshrine discrimination in our state constitution — and constitutions are designed to establish civil rights, not take them away. What this amendment will do is harm any unmarried couple in North Carolina, whether gay or straight, including elderly couples who live together without getting married because one of them would lose retirement benefits by re-marrying, and the couple cannot afford to live without that second check. What this amendment will do is take away protections from children of unmarried couples — and children need more protection, not less.

What this amendment will do is end domestic partner benefits in those municipalities that currently offer them — leaving partners and their children without health insurance.  It will mean that any judge can decide your will or your heath care directives, or your custody agreement can be challenged and thrown out, simply because you weren’t legally married to your partner. What this amendment will do is end domestic violence protections for unmarried couples.

Frankly, this amendment looks simply like state-sponsored bullying — setting a tone that approves of bullying based on one person’s perception of another person’s sexual orientation.

I am disturbed – no, I am offended, because there has been an effort to sell this amendment using religious arguments.

We’ve all heard these arguments. Much is made of those few places in the Bible which proscribe homosexual acts — Leviticus, for example, with its rules for ritual purity (which also forbid tattoos, trimming beards, and wearing cotton-polyester shirts) — all of which are the parts of The Law that Christ came to sweep away when he brought the new covenant to God’s people. The story of Sodom is often used as well; but the Bible is clear that the sins of Sodom were those of greed, gluttony, and failing to care for the poor. Nor is homosexuality one of the Big Ten — the ten commandments which codify decent human behavior, and by which most of us live.

Even those passages in the New Testament which are sometimes cited either refer to the Greek practices of male prostitution and forced sex with young boys or, at the least, do not reflect our current understanding of human sexuality — that some of us are created heterosexual and others are created homosexual, and that no one “chooses” their sexuality. Paul’s exhortations regarding what is “natural” or “unnatural” fall into this category. After all, what is natural for me as a heterosexual married woman is unnatural for a celibate, gay, or lesbian person.

As a Christian, I am called to love God and my neighbor; and it is very clear that everyone is my neighbor. There is no place in Christianity for hate … or lies … or bullying. We are called to do justice and love Mercy — to love one another without judging and to treat each other with respect. Jesus spoke of this constantly. He never mentioned homosexuality … not once, in all his ministry. But he did preach care for the poor and destitute, kindness to strangers, and consideration for children.

Amendment One will do great damage to families in our state.  It will remove protections from children, many victims of domestic violence, and any couple that is considered “unmarried” under North Carolina law. It is offensive. And I believe it is un-Christian.

Marjory Holder is 2nd Vice Chair of the Watauga County Democratic Party. She lives in Blowing Rock.

Former Congressman and current Democratic candidate for governor Bob Etheridge will hold a meet-and-greet at Café Portofino on Sunday afternoon, April 22, from 7 – 8:30 p.m.

The event is free and open to the public.

Etheridge is a former county commissioner, state representative, and state superintendent of public education. He served in the U.S. House of Representatives from 1997 to 2011.

He is running in a six-person Democratic primary for governor. The vote will be May 8.

Mr. Etheridge looks forward to meeting Watauga County voters on Sunday.

This is a partial list, and plants are being added on a daily basis. This list is organized mainly by common name, and it has not yet been alphabetized.

Details about the Sale:

One day only! June 23, 2012, starting at 7 a.m. (sorry, no early sales). Prices start at $1 and range upward, depending on the genus, the age and size of the plant, and its rarity. Availability of many of the species listed below will be extremely limited. We’ll have a large selection of container plantings including our exhibition of “re-purposed planters.” We’ll also be featuring a sale of hard-back gardening books, AND we’ll be selling Continental Breakfast including gourmet coffee. Once again, the sale will take place at the home of Pam & Jerry Williamson, and their gardens will be open for viewing. All proceeds go to support the Watauga County Democratic Party.

AESCHYNANTHUS ‘RASTA’ Twister Plant

AFRICAN VIOLET STARTS Saintpaulia

AJUGA ‘BRONZE BEAUTY’ Ajuga Reptans

ALDER, DWARF WITCH  Fothergilla Gardenii

ALOE, MEDICINAL Aloe Vera

ANEMONE, “SEPTEMBER CHARM”  Anemone Hupehensis

ARCHANGEL, YELLOW  Lamiastrum ‘Herman’s Pride’

ARTEMISIA “ORIENTAL LIMELIGHT” Artemisia Vulgaris

ASH, AMERICAN MOUNTAIN Sorbus  Americana

ASTER, STAR WOOD Eurybia Divaricata

ASTILBE Astilbe x Arendsii “Amethyst” • “Red Sentinel” • “Deutschland”

BABY’S BREATH Gypsophila Paniculata “Bristol Fairy”

BACHELOR’S BUTTON Centaurea Cynus ‘Red Buttons’

BEE BALM Monarda Didyma ‘Panorama Red Shades’

BEECH, NATIVE AMERICAN Fagus Grandifolia

BEGONIA, RHIZOMATOUS  Cathedral • Tiger Kitten • Black Truffles • Beefsteak

BELLFLOWER Campanula Punctata

BERGENIA, HEARTLEAF Bergenia Cordifolia

BLACK COHOSH Cimicifuga Racemosa

BLACK MONDO GRASS Ophiopogon Planiscapus

BLACKBERRY LILY Belamcanda Chinensis

BLACK-EYED SUSAN Rudbeckia Hirta

BLUE FESCUE Festuca Ovina var. Glauca

BLUE LYME GRASS Arenarius Glaucus

CALENDULA Officinalis ‘Bronzed Beauty’

CANDYTUFT Iberis Sempervirens

CARDINAL VINE Ipomoea Sloteri

CAROLINA SWEET SHRUB Calycanthus Floridus

CATMINT ‘WALKER’S LOW’ Nepeta Racemosa

CELANDINE POPPY Stylophorum Diphyllum

CHAMELEON PLANT Houttuynia Cordata

CHINESE BLOODROOT Eomecon Chionantha “Snow Poppy”

CHIVES Allium Schoenoprasum

CHRISTMAS CACTUS STARTS Schlumbergera

CHRYSANTHEMUM “SHEFFIELD” Hardy Chrysanthemum

CHRYSANTHEMUM “SINGLE APRICOT KOREAN” Hardy Chrysanthemum

CHRYSANTHEMUM, “GLOBAL WARMING”  Descendants of Chrysanthemum Koreanum ‘Sheffield’

CHRYSANTHEMUM, DWARF Chrysanthemum Parthenium

CINNAMON VINE Dioscorea Batatas

CIRCLE FLOWER Lysimachia Punctata “Alexander”

CLEMATIS “My Angel” Small-Flowering Clematis

CLEMATIS,  BUSH  Clematis Integrifolia

COLEUS (different cultivars) Solenostemon Scutellarioides

CONEFLOWER, WHITE Echinacea Purpurea ‘White Swan’

CORAL BELLS Heuchera “Firefly”

CORAL BELLS Heuchera–Unnamed Cultivars

CORYDALIS Corydalis Lutea

COSMOS Psyche White • Rose Bon Bon • Picotee

CRABAPPLE,  DWARF Malus Sargentil ‘Roselow’

CREEPING JENNY Lysimachia Nummularia “Aurea”

CREEPING SPEEDWELL Veronica “Waterperry Blue”

CROCOSMIA “JENNY BLOOM” Croscosmia

CROCOSMIA “LUCIFER” Croscosmia

CUTLEAF CONEFLOWER Rudbeckia Laciniata

DAPPLED WILLOW STARTS Salix Integra “Hakuro Nishiki”

DEAD NETTLE, PURPLE Lamium Purpureaum

DRAGONWORT Persicaria Bistorta “Superba”

ECHINOPS ‘BLUE GLOW’ Echinops Bannaticus

FAIRY WINGS (Bishops’ Mitre) Epimedium

FERN, JAPANESE PAINTED  Athyrium Niponicum var. Pictum

FERNS  Autumn • Ostrich • Sensitive • Royal • Wood

FEVERFEW Tanacetum Parthenium

FORGET-ME-NOT (native) Myosotis Sylvatica

FORGET-ME-NOT Brunnera Macrophylla

FORSYTHIA , KOREAN Forsythia Viridissima var. “Koreana Kumson”

GARLIC CHIVES Allium Tuberosum

GERANIUM, “CLARIDGE DRUCE” Geranium Oxonianum

GERANIUM, BIGFOOT CRANESBILL Geranium Macrorrihizum

GERANIUM, DWARF Geranium Sanguineum “Max Frei”

GERANIUM, WOOLY Geranium Platyanthum

GINGER Asarum (Various Cultivars)

GLADIOLUS “GREEN STAR” Biltmore Estate Gladiolus

GLADIOLUS, 1920’s BOONE PERENNIAL HEIRLOOM Gladiolus ‘Boone’

GLADIOLUS, PEACOCK ORCHID Gladiolus Murielae

HEAVENLY BAMBOO Nandina Domestica

HORSERADISH Armoracia Rusticana

HOSTA, MINIATURE “Electrocution”

HOSTA, MINIATURE “Golden Tiara”

HOSTAS Unnamed green, gold, white variegated

HYACINTH BEAN VINE Lablab Purpureus

HYBRID DAYLILIES (named varieties, not ditch lilies) Hemerocallis

HYDRANGEA. “ANNABELLE” Hydrangea Arborsecens

HYSSOP “GOLDEN JUBILEE” Agastache Foeniculum

IRIS “HORNS AND BLUES” Bearded Iris (Jim Hedgecock, 1996)

IRIS “JOYANCE” Bearded Iris (Dykes, 1929)

IRIS,  BLUE SIBERIAN Iris Sibirica

IRIS, LOUISIANA “It’s-a-Boy”

IRIS, LOUISIANA Ann Chowning

IRIS, SIBERIAN “SNOWCREST” Iris Sibirica

IRIS, WALKING (house plant) Neomarica Gracilis

IRIS, YELLOW FLAG Iris Pseudacorus

JADE TREE STARTS Crassula Ovata

LADY’S MANTLE Alchemilla Mollis

LAMB’S EAR Stachys Byzantina

LARKSPUR Echinacea Purpurea ‘White Swan’

LAVENDER Lavandula Angustifolia ‘Ellagance’

LENTEN ROSE “Cinnamon Snow” Helleborus Ballarddiae

LENTEN ROSE Helleborus Orientalis

LILAC Syringa Vulgaris

LILY OF THE VALLEY Convallaria Majalis

LILY,  ASIATIC Lillium (Various Cultivars)

LILY, HARDY PRINCESS Alstroemeria “Sweet Laura”

LILY, NATIVE TURK’S CAP Lilium Superbum

LILY, ORIENTAL Lilium (Various Cultivars)

LIRIOPE Liriope Muscari

LOOSTRIFE, FRINGED  Lysimachia Ciliata “Firecracker”

LUNGWORT Pulmonaria Saccharata

LUPINES Lupinus Polyphyllus ‘Gallery Mix’

MASTERWORT Astrantia Major

MEADOWSWEET Filipendula Ulmaria

MONKSHOOD aka ‘Wolfsbane’ Aconitum Napellus

MONTICELLO HOLLYHOCKS Alcea Rosea

MOONFLOWER VINE Ipomoea Alba

MORNING GLORY Ipomoea Nil  ‘Kikyo Sora’

MOUNTAIN BLUET Centaurea Montana

MYSTERY DAHLIAS “Boggie Woogie” or “Dinner Plate”

NASTURTIUM, EMPRESS OF INDIA Nasturtium Tropaeolum Majus

OREGANO, GOLDEN  Origanum Vulgare “Aureum”

PACHYSANDRA “JAPANESE SPURGE” Pachysandra Terminalis

PAINTER’S PALETTE Persicaria Virginiana var. Filiformis

Periwinkle Vinca Minor

PHLOX, PURPLE GARDEN Phlox Paniculata

PHLOX, WHITE ‘DAVID’ Phlox Paniculata

PLUM, AMERICAN WILD Prunus Americana

PLUME POPPY Macleaya Cordata

POOR MAN’S ORCHID Schizanthus Pinnatus ‘Angel Wings’

POPPY “DANISH FLAG” Papaver Somniferum

POPPY “HENS & CHICKENS” Papaver Somniferum

POPPY, FLEMISH ANTIQUE  Papaver Somniferum

PURPLE SPURGE Euphorbia Dulcis

QUEEN OF THE PRAIRIE Filipendula Rubra

QUINCE Chaenomeles Superba ‘Cameo’

REDBUD Cercis Canadensis

ROSE, HARDY CLIMBING  ‘Peggy Martin’ AKA:  ‘Hurricane Katrina Rose’

ROSE, HARDY CLIMBING ‘Autumn Sunset’

SCARLET RUNNER BEAN Phaseolus Coccineus

SEDGE, BROAD LEAF Carex Siderosticha Variegata

SEDUM Various Cultivars

SHASTA DAISY Leucanthemum Spuerbum

SILVER KING WORMWOOD Artemesia Ludoviciana

SNOWBERRY Symphoricarpos Albus

SNOW-ON-MOUNTAIN AKA: BISHOP’S WEED Aegopodium Podagraria “Variegatum”

SOLIDAGO ‘GOLD SPANGLES’ Variegated Goldenrod

SOLOMON’S SEAL, DWARF Polygonatum Humile “Tom Thumb”

SOUTHERN BUSH HONEYSUCKLE Diervilla Sessifolia

SPIDERWORT Tradescantia Andersoniana

SPINY BEAR’S BREECHES Acanthus Spinosus

SPURGE Euphorbia Esula

STRAWBERRIES, EVERBEARING

SUNFLOWERS Mammoth Russian • The Joker • Stella Gold

SWEET JAPANESE COLTSFOOT Petasites Japonicus

SWEET PEA, OLD FASHIONED “Heirloom Pastel Mix”

Sweet Pea, Perennial  Lathyrus Latifolius

SWEET PEA, PERENNIAL Lathyrus Latifolius ‘Pink Pearl’

SWEET WOODRUFF Galium Odoratum

SWEETSPIRE, VIRGINIA Itea Virginica ‘Henry’s Garnet’

TANSY “ISLA GOLD” Tanacedum Vulgare

TANSY Tanacedum Vulgare

TOMATO “MORTGAGE LIFTER”  Organic Heirloom 1930’s

VARIEGATED TOAD LILY Tricyrtis Macropoda “Tricolor”

VERBENA-ON-A-STICK Verbena Bonariensis

VIBURNUM, BLACKHAW Viburnum Prunifolium

VINCA ‘ILLUMINATION’ Vinca Minor

WILD COLUMBINE Aquilegia Candansis

WILLOW, BLACK PUSSY Salix Gracilistyla “Melanostachys”

WILLOW, SCARLET CURLS Salix Matsudana “Scarlet Curls”

WINTERCREEPER ‘EMERALD & GOLD’ Euonymous Fortunei

WINTERCREEPER “EMERALD GAIETY” Euonymous Fortunei

YARROW ‘PAPRIKA’ Achillea

YELLOW LOOSESTRIFE Lysimachia Punctata

ZINNIAS Benary’s Giants

ZINNIAS Profusion Series

Remarks made at the April 12, 2012, Watauga County Democratic Party Convention, by Rev. Marcia M. Cham:

First, I must apologize that the title of my keynote address might bring up George Bush’s Compassionate Conservatism.

My Compassionate Politics begins with listening to the underlying messages, anxieties, fears, and humiliations of your constituents.

It exhibits empathy, trying to get inside their lives to feel how it feels to live at the bottom, or be Hispanic, or a woman of color, or a person of a sexual orientation that differs from the majority, or a single mom or dad.

The intention of Compassionate Politics is to liberate all creatures from pain, domination, injustice, cruelty,  whether it is cultural, historical, or for us in the United States where our Constitution honors the separation of church and state, of the “Biblical Idolatry” variety, where the Bible is static and not a living Spirit.

Compassionate Politics is not like the example of the King in Yertle the Turtle by Dr. Seuss where King Yertle builds his kingdom on the backs of other turtles. As the pile gets higher and harder for the turtles to balance, the turtle at the bottom named Mack says, “Beg your pardon, King Yertle, I’ve pains in my back and shoulders and knees. How long must we stand here, your majesty, please?”

“SILENCE. You stay in your place while I sit here and rule. I need to be higher! Another 200 turtles will do.”

“I don’t like to complain but down here we are feeling great pain. You at the top have great sights. But at the bottom we should have rights. We can’t stand it. Our shells will crack. Besides we need food. We are starving.”

The King did not listen. “I need more turtles, about five thousand six hundred and seven will do. Get more. I need to be higher and higher.”

Let me illustrate: I attended at work camp in the Navajo Nation. There was a Navajo woman bending over a fire making pita-like bread for our lunch and carrying water from a well, when there was a two bedroom trailer on her property. The government had set it on her property with the promise that it would be hooked up. But five years later … no hook ups, and she preferred her hogan anyhow.

A compassionate political leader would have gone to the woman, sat in her hogan, and discussed what she needed, what would make her life better. But no one came. The orders came from Washington to place a manufactured metal trailer on her property where she greeted the ancients every morning when the sun came up.

Compassionate Politics begins with listening to the underlying messages, anxieties, fears, and humiliations of your constituents.

A King Yertle came to my work-camp site deep in a holler of West Virginia. He said to the resident, “If you are so poor, how is it you have a big screen TV when you need food stamps to feed your family?”

The dad lifted his ball cap and scratched his head. “See that creek out there? In the spring and fall it fills up and covers the road, and the school bus cannot pick up my children. With the TV we can pick up the school lessons for my kids. Food stamps or school lessons? Education is the only way my kids are going to get out of this holler. I work, but my income is not enough to provide everything for my family, so I have to make choices. If the road was fixed, the kids could get to school, and then I could get off food stamps.”

You see, Compassionate Politics is like that old saying from the Native Americans: Don’t judge a person until you’ve walked two moons in their moccasins.

I seethed, but I tried to practice compassion when I read the added note in a letter to the editor in the High Country Press where I was named, and wrong information was cited, but again seething, I paused and let it alone. I didn’t want to detract from the real story that I was present at their rally at Watauga High School as one against Amendment One. I didn’t want to dilute my presence by being petty.

It’s getting lost in that sort of tit-for-tat that takes us away from our progressive agenda to defeat Amendment One, to restart the economy, to create jobs, to protect our environment, and to improve the education of the children in North Carolina and Watauga country. Mud-slinging and horizontal violence and negative campaigning will detract from our progressive agenda.

You might be familiar with Horton Hears a Who! Horton, a huge elephant — oops! Sorry about the elephant, but Seuss needed the elephant’s big ears for the story — Horton hears a small voice, shaking with fear, calling for help. He searches and finds the smallest of the small in a speck on a piece of clover. Horton is ridiculed and called a fool. The Wickersham brothers snatched the piece of clover and the Black Bottomed Bird drops it into a field of clover.  Horton searches. The rest threaten to rope and cage Horton and his speck of dust. Until they all hear a voice from that piece of clover, saying, “We are here! We are here!” Throughout the story Horton repeats the phrase, “A person’s a person no matter how small.” At the end all the jungle believed the who’s were persons, and all agreed to protect them and speak out for them.

Like Horton, Compassionate Politics would liberate all persons from pain, domination, injustice, cruelty, whether it originated in culture, at a time in history, or from Biblical Idolatry.

Biblical Idolatry is what led to the arrest of the Lovings after their interracial marriage in 1958. In 1967 the Supreme Court, in the case of the Lovings, “Begged to differ with the idea that modern civil law should be based in biblical exegesis.” The Supreme Court justices said, “The freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men.” At the time 70% of Americans opposed the court’s decision, yet the institution of marriage did not collapse. It will not collapse with same-gender marriage.

I know we’ve tried to move our arguments against Amendment 1 from same-sex marriage to what might or will happen to unmarried partners and their children and to domestic violence enforcement and the economy, but after my experience at the “Rally for the Marriage Amendment ,” I think we need to take a look at marriage.

As those who practice Compassionate Politics we need to understand and hear where they are coming from. They fear that their marriages will somehow be different. I felt the fear in the auditorium at the high school.

Even today those who quote the Bible are mostly “in dominant theological traditions.” Mark Ellison writes, “Marriage remains a gendered structure that normalizes inequalities of power, status, and role between partners.” They fear their concept of marriage will change. “Who gives this woman to this man?” might get reversed.

Marriage has shifted from dominance and power to gender equality, the mutual partnership of equals, a dismantling of sexist patterns. Marriage is being delayed. Children in the wedding party are becoming the norm. This is hard for some to take in, but they need to know that marriage reform is an expansion of the pool of eligible, committed, loving, and mutually responsible persons who desire to live in monogamous relationships and enjoy the civil benefits, emotional well-being, and protections of marriage. It is not about altering the institution of marriage.

The goal is equal access, not the transformation of marriage.

Sadly, compassionate politics does not come naturally. We always think we are right, whether we want to admit it or not, and have a me-first mind set. It is hard work to get into the mindset of “the other” and budge from our perspective.

But we have heard the voice of those who are denied, and so like Horton, we need to stand up, be with, and speak out.

And like that plain little turtle named Mack, when the king announced he needed five thousand six hundred and seven, he burped. Now all the turtles are free, as all creatures should be.

That plain little Mack burped for justice, equality, and respect for all people.

I’m proud to be a Democrat.


By Anna Oakes, in the Watauga Democrat:

The impending May 8 referendum on a constitutional amendment that would ban same-sex marriage in North Carolina was chief among the issues discussed at the annual Watauga County Democratic Convention Saturday.

The Rev. Marcia Cham, a retired United Church of Christ minister and vocal opponent of the amendment, was the keynote speaker at the convention, delivering a speech called “Compassionate Politics: Oxymoron or not?”

In opposing the constitutional amendment, Cham urged county Democrats not to shy away from challenging what she called “Biblical idolatry.” She said amendment supporters are exploiting Bible scriptures to defend the amendment the same way opponents of inter-racial marriage did years ago.

“The only thing they’re looking at is the Bible,” Cham said. “Civil law should not be based on Biblical exegesis in a country that separates church and state.”

She encouraged party members to avoid mudslinging and tit-for-tat politics but to take a stand for those who cannot.

“Even in this county some of our friends who are gay and lesbian cannot speak out because of their jobs. We do have this opportunity to speak out,” she said. “I am proud to be a Democrat. I am proud to work for justice and equality and respect for all peoples.”

Cham also said public servants should not assume they know what citizens need but instead ask how they can help: “Compassionate politics begins with listening,” she said.

County party members heard from a number of candidates in the upcoming primary and general elections.

Roy Carter, candidate for the District 45 N.C. Senate seat currently held by Republican Dan Soucek, gave brief remarks, stating he could not sit on the sidelines after last year’s state budget cuts to education.

“Education in this state has gone from the pride of the South,” said Carter, a former high school teacher and football coach. “I’m a workaholic. It won’t be a part-time job for me. I’ve been on the front lines of education.”

Democratic candidates for the Watauga County Board of Education said they would fight to support early childhood education and prevent additional cuts to education budgets.

“We must fight these cuts,” said school board candidate Jay Fenwick. “How can a teacher excel if they’re looking over their shoulder worrying that the next pink slip is for them?”

Candidates for county commissioner said actions of the current Republican majority on the board have hurt struggling families in the county and said they would work for greater transparency in county government.

“Republicans see government as a way to profit personally. They either want to kill it or make money off of it,” said county commission candidate Billy Kennedy. “The future is where everybody has a chance to succeed, not just a privileged few.”

By “Hunter,” on Daily Kos:

Ladies and gentlemen, the deep thoughts and abiding wisdom of Rep. Virginia Foxx (R-NC), complaining to G. Gordon Liddy (yeah, I know) about the young kids today and how they should all just get a job, hippie:

I went through school, I worked my way through, it took me seven years, I never borrowed a dime of money. He borrowed a little bit because we both were totally on our own when we went to college, totally. [...] I have very little tolerance for people who tell me that they graduate with $200,000 of debt or even $80,000 of debt because there’s no reason for that. We live in an opportunity society and people are forgetting that. I remind folks all the time that the Declaration of Independence says “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.” You don’t have it dumped in your lap.

I’m not sure how a full-time college student is supposed to come up with $50,000 per year, unless it’s selling things Virginia Foxx probably doesn’t approve of. But I guess back when Virginia Foxx went to college the tuition was five pumpkins and a bag of turnips, and if she could come up with it then, surely an 18-year-old can come up with $200,000 now. Get a job! Well, it’s minimum wage, so get four jobs, slacker! (Oh, and did I mention that back then, they all tied onions to their belts, which was the style at the time?)

For newcomers who haven’t heard of Virginia Foxx before, she is a proud member of the House dimwit caucus, alongside such esteemed freedom-geniuses as Allen West and Louie Gohmert. Amongst their weaponry: Gullibility, foot-in-mouth disease, and a fanatical lack of awareness as to the most basic realities faced by other people in the country. So yes, she says stuff like this all the time.

By Anna Oakes, in the Watauga Democrat:

The Watauga County Democratic Party will hold its annual convention Saturday, April 14, at the Watauga County Courthouse.

Registration and a potluck luncheon will begin at noon in the top floor lobby outside of Courtroom No. 1. The convention will begin at 1 p.m. inside the courtroom.

Delivering the keynote address, titled “Compassionate Politics: Oxymoron or not?,” will be retired minister and author the Rev. Marcia Cham. After serving as a pastor for 20 years, Cham is now employed as an on-call hospital chaplain and is active with the High Country Writers organization.

Cham is the author of “You Mean I Have to Look at the Body? Stories of Dying and Living” and is actively working on a second book.

Also on the convention agenda will be speeches by 2012 candidates, including Elisabeth Motsinger, candidate for Congress from the Fifth Congressional District; Roy Carter, candidate for the N.C. Senate District 45 seat; Cullie Tarleton, candidate for the N.C. House District 93 seat; as well as candidates for county commission and school board.

Delegates will also debate and vote on a number of resolutions related to the independent redistricting commission, the 2011 legislative record of the Republican-led General Assembly, the May 8 state constitutional amendment referendum and other topics.

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